Marriage Analysis: Kelly DOB 30 Nov 1982, Malaysia

Dear Kelly,

There is a conflict of your earthly branches between your Spouse Relationship Pillar's branch of Si and the element that represent your husband in the current Active Pillar's branch of Hai. This conflict is direct and sudden, which can be short-term auspicious or inauspicious events. As the conflict is between the element Water that represent your husband and your spouse relationship element represented by Fire, your mom's Sifu probably diagnosed it as a problem with your marriage life in the future.


However, as I mentioned earlier, a conflict can be both auspicious or inauspicious events. In fact a conflict is considered beneficial when the adverse element of an individual's BaZi encounters a conflict and is suppressed.


As your Day Master of Ding (yin fire) is weaker than the strong presence of water elements in your life chart, this conflict can be considered beneficial since it suppress the strong water element of Hai. Possible auspicious events could be a removal of burden or a good turning point.


Your BaZi life chart has the equal balance of all the 5 elements of Wood, Fire, Earth, Metal and Water. Your Yin and Yang Pillars are also balanced. This means that whatever obstacles you face in life, you will be able to conquer them and come out a better person.

You are 26 this year, your next 10-years luck period will be from 28-37 where the element of Shen in the luck period combines with your Spouse Pillar Si to transform into Water. This means that your Spouse Pillar's branch of Si (Fire) is now transformed into Water, the element that represents your husband. What is the significance of this? It depends on your marital status now.

If you are still single, this is the period that you will most probably get married.

If you are already married, this signifies that the relationship between your spouse and you will change. Previously the relationship is based on that of equals but now your husband may change to become more controlling since Water element controls Fire. Is this good or bad? That will depend on your individual character, if you prefer your husband to take the lead, then it is a good combination. Otherwise, you will feel a bit restricted. This situation will not last forever as after 38 years of age, the combination will reverse back to their original elements.

From your chart pattern, I derived your character strengths to be a kind, gentle, patient and compassionate person. Your strengths alone will see you through all obstacles in life, so do not worry too much about what your mom's sifu said. The more you worry, the more your weakness of emotional insecurity will takeover and control your thoughts and eventually affects your ability to live life to the fullest.

helo,, i was accidently encounter a prob abt my marriage life in future, a sifu told my mum but then my mum doenst want to eloborate more to me. i have a solitary star and travelling horse in my reading and a noble star i perhaps, can u predict my marriage luck for me? im really keen to know. thank you in advanced! my DOB 30th Nov 1982, female born in malaysia 8.05am. regards, kelly