Dear DAL
A preliminary reading of your bazi shows that you have all the 5 elements present in your basic bazi chart. This shows that your life is more fortunate than others. However, I have not taken into account clashes and combinations and 10-years luck cycle.
Your Yin-Yang harmony is balanced and correctly located in the right pillars for your gender which reinforce the balance of elements.
The chart also shows that your husband relationship is that of indirect resource to you. Still you are fortunate to have a supportive husband-wife relationship.
The feeling of being neglected and lonely is something you need to deal with proactively, as your chart shows the strong presence of Earth elements which controls your thoughts and feelings. The element that represents "Friends" is minimal, therefore you will feel a lack of peer support. This does not mean that you are lack of friends. It means that your attitude and expectations of friendship is different from your friends.
To overcome this is easy and within your own power of action. You need to change your mindset and be positive and proactive. Take up a hobby, attend enrichment courses, do social work. Above all, manage your expectations.
Change your attitude and outlook in life. You do not need other people to validate your self-worth, because your life is fortunate based on your basic bazi pillars alone.
I will post your full bazi reading next week.
Regards
Aloysius
Hi, Aloysius, can pls let me know about my life?? I always felt negleted by family members since young.. Even now married with kids, as a hsewife, I always feel lonely.. Smtimes I refuse to believe my life is so lonely without understanding n help from ppl around me.. Im always friendly n helpful, but ppl never treat me like this in return.. I really feel like going out to work but husband don support my idea, I also fear I may not be able to cope with work n family n kid's studies so had put off the idea for quite sometime aready. I really dono why.. Can u pls help me read my bazi?? THKS!! My bazi as follows..country of birth and residence: Singapore. Date and Time of Birth: 02/11/1979Time: (Confidential) DAL
